Consent, every time
Nobody owes anybody anything here. Every meet and every swap happens because everyone involved said yes, and anyone can change their mind at any point. Anyone who ignores a no can be reported and blocked in moments.
Our story
About Find Swingers: Swinging Since 2004
Couples and singles have been meeting here for more than twenty years. Here's who we are, and who we're for.
A swinger site with staying power
Find Swingers went online in 2004, and it is still doing what it set out to do.
The idea has never been complicated. Couples and singles in the lifestyle should have one place to say exactly what they want, find the people who want it too and arrange to meet without anyone else knowing their business.
The look has changed over the years. The attitude hasn't: bold, direct and grown-up, the way swingers talk to each other when nobody's pretending.
More than 10,700 swingers, from London to Sydney
Our members number more than 10,700, and more than 1,900 of them have joined as couples.
Two in three live in the UK, with more than 1,800 across Greater London alone. The rest are spread through Australia, the USA, Canada and further afield, from Spain to Colombia and Mexico.
They're grown-ups, too. More than half are aged 35 to 54, about one in five is 25 to 34 and roughly one in four is 55 or over.
- Swingers UK Two in three of our members
- Swingers Australia More than 950 members
- Swingers USA More than 550 members
- Swingers Canada More than 400 members
Every country, region and city we cover is on our places page.
What we stand for
Consent, discretion and saying what you want
The lifestyle works on three things. So does Find Swingers.
Discretion as standard
Your sex life is nobody else's business. That's why you choose a username, only your nearest town is shown and photos that could be explicit stay blurred until someone decides to look.
Honesty about what you want
Soft swap only? Full swap, same room, a unicorn for the weekend? Put it on your profile. Being upfront saves everyone time, and it means a yes, when it comes, is worth having.
Looked after from the first hello
Members can prove they're genuine with a free ID check or a review by our team, either of which puts a badge on their profile, or with a live video check with a moderator. Every member carries a community rating. AI and human moderators screen what gets uploaded, and the site warns you when someone tries to drag a chat onto WhatsApp.
Real people answer 24/7 by chat and messaging, and through the Online Dating and Discovery Association we help shape the safety standards dating services follow. The full picture is on our swinger safety page, and every tool is on our features page.
Right for you if you're ready to play
Find Swingers suits couples who swing or want to start, from a first soft swap to full swap at a party. It suits single women and single men who want to meet couples, and couples looking for a third. Curious newcomers are welcome too, and our swinging guides start with the basics.
It isn't for everyone, and it doesn't try to be. If you want to play, you'll fit right in.
Still weighing us up? Read is Find Swingers legit, or see how we stack up in our Find Swingers comparisons. You must be 18 or over to join.
Questions about Find Swingers
How long has Find Swingers been around?
Since 2004. The look has changed over the years, but Find Swingers has always been a site for swingers, where couples and singles arrange soft swap, full swap, threesomes and party nights. Anyone joining must be 18 or over.
Who is Find Swingers for?
Adults who swing or want to try it: couples, single women and single men. Couples come to meet other couples or find a third, and singles come to meet couples. If you're new to it, take your time: nobody here expects you to rush.
Where are Find Swingers members based?
Two in three live in the UK, and more than 1,800 are in Greater London. Most of the rest are in Australia, the USA and Canada, with smaller groups in Spain, Colombia, Mexico and beyond. Our places pages break it down by country and city.