A drink before anything else
First meets happen in a pub, a hotel bar or over a meal. Our guide to your first swinger meet covers what to agree before you go.
Swingers in Australia
Swingers Australia: Couples and Singles Who Play
Five capital cities, one relaxed crowd: meet Australian swingers who know what they like and say so.
Australian swingers on Find Swingers
Find Swingers has more than 950 members in Australia, and more than a third of them are couples. Nearly all of them live in New South Wales, Victoria, Queensland, Western Australia and South Australia.
Australia's scene is grown-up and unhurried. Our members here are older than the site as a whole, couples make up a bigger share than in any other country where we have members in numbers, and the distances between cities mean a local search does most of the work.
That suits a site like ours. You can see who is in your city, chat for as long as you need and meet when it feels right, without anyone at work or next door any the wiser.
Pick your city
- Swingers in Sydney
New South Wales is our biggest Australian state, and Sydney holds more than 100 members on its own.
- Swingers in Melbourne
Victoria's swingers, where couples make up nearly four in ten members.
- Swingers in Brisbane
Queensland's members from Brisbane down to the Gold Coast, with the oldest age mix of the five.
- Swingers in Perth
Western Australia's swingers, a long way from the other capitals and a scene of their own.
- Swingers in Adelaide
South Australia's smaller scene, where most members are 45 or over.
Members also live in Canberra, Newcastle, Wollongong, Townsville and Tasmania, in smaller numbers. Wherever you are in Australia, search by distance and set how far you'll drive.
An experienced crowd
Our Australian members by age, singles and couples together:
Members under 3512%
Members aged 35 to 4426%
Members aged 45 to 5427%
Members aged 55 or over36%
Shares of our members in Australia, singles and couples together, from our member records.
More than a third are 55 or over and only about one in eight is under 35. If you're a couple in your forties or fifties, you'll find plenty of people at the same stage; if you're younger, say so up front and look for the couples who list a wide age range.
Where our Australian members live
| State | Share | Worth knowing |
|---|---|---|
| New South Wales | More than a third | Our biggest state: Sydney, Newcastle, Wollongong |
| Victoria | About one in five | Melbourne, with a high share of couples |
| Queensland | About one in five | Brisbane, the Gold Coast, Townsville |
| Western Australia | About one in ten | Perth and its suburbs |
| South Australia | About one in thirteen | Adelaide |
The Australian Capital Territory and Tasmania each have a handful of members, so set a wider search distance if you live there.
The Australian way
Laid back, but never careless
Australian swingers are relaxed about plenty, but not about manners, health or privacy.
Health checks are easy
Going by healthdirect's guidance, a Medicare card should cover STI testing at your GP or a sexual health clinic. Regular checks are part of playing well.
Clubs and parties
The big cities have on-premises venues and private party nights. Read how swingers clubs and swingers parties work before you book.
Swingers Australia questions
Where are the swingers in Australia?
On Find Swingers, mostly in the five state capitals: Sydney, Melbourne, Brisbane, Perth and Adelaide, with New South Wales the biggest state by far. Smaller groups live in Canberra, regional New South Wales and Queensland, and Tasmania.
Are there many swinging couples in Australia?
Couples are more than a third of our Australian members, a bigger share than in the UK or the USA. Sydney and Melbourne have the most couples of the Australian cities.
Can I meet swingers in Queensland outside Brisbane?
Yes. Members live on the Gold Coast and in Townsville as well as in Brisbane. Set your search distance to cover the drive you're happy to make and you'll see who is in range.
Is swinging legal in Australia?
Laws are set by each state, and they concern public places: Queensland's Criminal Code, for example, makes an indecent act in a public place an offence. Keep play private and follow a venue's own rules.
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