Sydney and NSW
From the Inner West to the Northern Beaches, Sydney's couples and singles are closer than the traffic makes them feel.
Find Swingers has more than 340 members across New South Wales, and more than 100 of them live in Sydney itself. More than 40 of the Sydney members are couples; the rest are singles. Stretch your search to the whole state and the pool roughly triples, with members up the coast in Newcastle and down it in Wollongong.
A couple on the Northern Beaches and a single in Western Sydney share a city on paper and can be a long way apart on a Friday night, so set your search distance to the trips you'll really make.
How the age mix looks across the state:
Shares of our members across New South Wales, singles and couples together, from our member records.
Nearly four in ten are 55 or over, and under-35s are about one in eight. Couples over 50 will find a big crowd at their own stage. If you're younger, put your age range on your profile and let the people who want exactly that come to you.
Know your Sydney
Sydney is several scenes stitched together by trains, ferries and motorways. Here's how each one plays.
For a first drink in town, try Maybe Sammy in The Rocks or Henry Deane, the rooftop lounge at Hotel Palisade in Millers Point. Our Secret Spot, an adult play-party venue for ethical non-monogamy on Parramatta Road in Annandale, sits within 5 km of the CBD: check its own site for current nights.
Parramatta, about 24 km west, is Sydney's second CBD, and Nick & Nora's there saves anyone out west the trip into town. Fun4Two, an on-premises swingers club in Rydalmere, opens for Saturday parties, so check its own site for current nights.
Bondi and the Eastern Suburbs, the North Shore and the Northern Beaches each run like a town of their own. Further out, Wollongong is 85 km south and the Blue Mountains town of Katoomba about 100 km west: weekend plans rather than weeknight ones.
Sydney rewards a plan. Four moves and the first drink is in the diary.
Set your distance from home, not from the CBD: a short hop on the map can be a long trip at rush hour.
Members see your nearest town and nothing more precise. Add a line saying you're happy to meet in the city, the Inner West or Parramatta, and you'll skip a dozen messages.
One Opal card covers trains, the Metro, light rail and the Circular Quay ferries, so nobody has to drive home after the second round.
Once you click, start a VIP group chat for the whole party, as many as 50 people, and sort the venue, the dress code and the lifts home in one thread.
Sydney is big enough to disappear in and small enough to bump into a colleague at the bottle shop. Use a username, share only what you're happy for members to read, and block anyone in a tap. Our safety page covers ID checks, blocking and reporting, our swinger profile tips help you write one that says enough, and your first swinger meet covers the drink itself.
New to the club side? Read how swingers clubs work before a first Saturday in Rydalmere. Heading north for a weekend? Meet the swingers in Brisbane before you land.
Yes. Fun4Two in Rydalmere is an on-premises club with Saturday parties, and Our Secret Spot in Annandale hosts adult play parties in the inner west. Nights and door policies change, so check each venue's own site before you go, register if it asks you to and take photo ID with you.
Somewhere central, busy enough to blend in and quiet enough to talk. Maybe Sammy in The Rocks and Henry Deane in Millers Point suit the city, and Nick & Nora's suits Parramatta. None of them has anything to do with the lifestyle, which is exactly the point.
Yes, though in smaller numbers than in Sydney. Set a search distance that takes in the city as well: Wollongong is 85 km south, and Newcastle sits further up the coast. In a state this size, offering to meet halfway for a first drink is a fair ask, and a generous one.
Find Swingers has more than 100 members in Sydney itself, more than 40 of them couples, and more than 340 across New South Wales. Add your suburb and the search shows everyone within the distance you choose, right out to the state line.
Every city and county we cover is on our local swingers page.
Make your profile tonight and see who's playing on your side of the harbour.
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