Melbourne and Victoria
Victoria leans towards couples, so if you're a pair looking for another pair, this city plays to your strengths.
Find Swingers has more than 210 members across Victoria, and more than 90 of them live in Melbourne itself. Nearly four in ten Victorian members are couples, and in Melbourne the share runs higher still.
That makes Melbourne a natural city for couple-to-couple fun, from a soft swap with one other pair to a full swap at a party, side by side or behind separate doors. Singles have a place too. A single woman or a single man who respects a couple's rules is often exactly the guest that couple has been hoping to meet.
The Melbourne way in
Chat online, take it to a laneway, and save the club for when you already like each other.
Search by distance, then read what each couple is after before you write. VIP's advanced filters sort Victoria by experience level and by what each person is open to, which saves a lot of reading. Our swinging couples page is the place to start.
Going solo? Lead with respect for a couple's rules and with what you bring to the night. Read how to find a third to see the search from the couple's side of the table.
Planning a party night? On VIP you can gather everyone, up to 50 people, in one private group chat and agree who's driving before anyone leaves home.
Melbourne's laneways are known for their cafés, bars and street art, and a small laneway bar is hard to beat for a first meet: low light, room to talk and an easy exit if the attraction isn't there.
In the CBD, try Caretaker's Cottage, or Lui Bar on level 55 of the Rialto on Collins Street, where the view gives nervous couples something to talk about. North of the river, Above Board in Collingwood is the pick.
Inside the CBD you can ride the trams without touching on, and a myki card covers the rest, so meet near a stop and leave the car at home.
Shed 16 in Seaford, about 36 km south-east of the CBD, runs couples' nights and themed parties; check its own site for current nights. In the city, the long-running Saints & Sinners Erotic Ball holds ticketed nights at Inflation on King Street a few times a year. Read up on swingers parties before your first big night.
Frankston is 39 km down the bay and Geelong about 75 km south-west, so a weekend radius is worth stretching.
Victoria's members by age:
Shares of our members across Victoria, singles and couples together, from our member records.
A third are 45 to 54, the biggest single group, and more than six in ten are 45 or over. Under-35s make up about one in seven. If that's you, put your age range front and centre.
Nearly four in ten of our members across Victoria are couples, and Melbourne's own share is a little higher. In all, Find Swingers has more than 210 members in the state and more than 90 in Melbourne itself, so a search by distance turns up couples close to home.
Yes. Shed 16 in Seaford, south-east of the city, is a dedicated swingers venue with couples' nights and themed parties, and the Saints & Sinners Erotic Ball runs ticketed nights at Inflation in the CBD. Programmes change, so check each one's own site or ticket listing before you plan the night.
Yes, on the couple's terms. Expect a couple to want a drink with you before anything else, and expect some club nights to cap or exclude single men. Say clearly on your profile what you offer and which rules you respect, then let the couples who like the sound of you get in touch.
Yes. Couples on Find Swingers live as far down as Frankston and out on the peninsula, and Shed 16 in Seaford is close by. If you're in Geelong instead, stretch your search radius to take in the western suburbs and pick a meeting point in between.
Our Australian swingers page covers the whole country, and swingers by place goes further still.
Make a profile and see which Victorian couples are up for a swap.
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