Swinger sites compared
Are There Any Good Swinger Sites?
Yes. Find Swingers, SDC, Fab Swingers, Swinging Heaven, Feeld, 3Fun and AdultFriendFinder are the names to know, and each suits a different kind of player.
Seven swinger sites and apps, side by side
| Name | Best for | Web or app | Known for |
|---|---|---|---|
| Find Swingers | Couples and singles who swing, two in three in the UK | Any browser; installs to your home screen | Online since 2004; free ID checks |
| SDC | Couples who travel and like a party | Website and apps on both stores | Started in 1999; party, club and travel listings |
| Fab Swingers | UK swingers happy with an ad-funded site | Website, mobile web app and apps on both stores | Paid for by adverts; since 2006 |
| Swinging Heaven | UK swingers who like chat rooms and groups | Website; no app found | Chat room with live cams; community moderators |
| Feeld | The curious: non-monogamy and kink beyond swinging | App on both stores | Join solo or as a couple; Incognito mode |
| 3Fun | Couples and singles after a threesome | App on both stores | Shared couple accounts; group chats |
| AdultFriendFinder | Adults who want a general adult site | Website; no official app found | Part of FriendFinder Networks, which says it began in 1996 |
Every fact was checked on 14 October 2026, mostly on each service's own pages and store listings, and any claim a service makes about itself is credited to it. We list ourselves first because this is our site, so weigh that as you read.
Which crowd is yours?
Find Swingers
Online since 2004 and built on the HubPeople dating platform, Find Swingers sticks to one thing: swinging. It has more than 10,000 members, more than 1,900 of them couples, and two in three live in the UK. Every member gets free ID checks, a moderator can confirm you on a video call, and it installs to your home screen from the browser. Want proof it's genuine? Read is Find Swingers legit.
SDC
SDC began in 1999 as Swingers Date Club, a dating site for swingers. By its own description it is the world's largest international swinging lifestyle community, and on the App Store it claims over 3 million members across more than 100 countries. Its strengths are parties, clubs and travel, from international party listings to a travel calendar and SDC BNB for swinger-friendly places to stay. Find Swingers vs SDC goes deeper.
Fab Swingers
Running since 2006, Fab Swingers says it was created by a swinging couple. It's paid for by small adverts rather than memberships, and an optional site supporter upgrade removes them. Members verify each other, and you'll find chat, meets and events, a clubs directory and photo galleries. Fab Swingers says more than 200,000 people use the site every day. Read Find Swingers vs Fab Swingers.
Swinging Heaven
Swinging Heaven bills itself as the UK's most popular swingers site and claims more than 1.9 million members. Singles and couples register on a basic membership, and paid Silver and Gold memberships open up the full chat room, mailbox and messenger. The chat room has live cams, with personal ads, groups and a UK clubs directory alongside, and moderators drawn from the swinging community help run it. See Find Swingers vs Swinging Heaven.
Feeld
Feeld is broader than swinging: an app for anyone curious about kink, non-monogamy and other ways to play. It launched in London in 2014 as 3nder and became Feeld in 2016. You can join solo or as a couple, it's an app download with a paid Majestic Membership, and Feeld says its community passes 14 million, counting registered accounts. More in Find Swingers vs Feeld.
3Fun
3Fun is built for couples and singles after a threesome or another ethically non-monogamous connection, and it says it welcomes gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, queer and transgender members. Couples can share one account, members can set up group chats and messaging your matches comes with the basic app, with a paid VIP subscription too. 3Fun Limited, the company behind it, is registered in the Seychelles. Compare it in Find Swingers vs 3Fun.
AdultFriendFinder
AdultFriendFinder covers adult dating and social networking in general rather than swinging alone. Its owner, FriendFinder Networks, dates itself to 1996 and runs ALT, Cams and Passion as well. When we checked, there was no official AdultFriendFinder app on the App Store or Google Play, though lookalikes from unrelated developers use the name in both, so check the developer before you install. See Find Swingers vs AdultFriendFinder.
Six questions that pick the right site for you
UK scene or international?
Fab Swingers and Swinging Heaven are run by UK companies. SDC says it has members in more than 100 countries. Find Swingers sits in between: two in three members are in the UK, with Australia, the USA and Canada next, and there are local pages for swingers by place.
Swinger-only, or something broader?
Find Swingers, SDC, Fab Swingers and Swinging Heaven are built for swingers. Feeld spans non-monogamy and kink, 3Fun centres on threesomes, and AdultFriendFinder covers adult dating in general. Broad gives you variety; swinger-only lets you skip the explaining.
Does it work for couples?
3Fun lets a couple share an account, SDC brings parties and travel together, and on Find Swingers couples join as couples, with private group chats for up to 50 people on VIP.
Can you see who's verified?
Find Swingers offers free ID checks with a badge, plus video verification with a moderator. Fab Swingers members verify each other, Feeld has optional photo verification, 3Fun has verified photos and Swinging Heaven asks every user to verify their age.
How discreet is it?
Check what strangers can see before you upload a face picture. On Find Swingers it's your username and nearest town, and explicit images stay blurred until a member chooses to look; Feeld and 3Fun both offer an Incognito mode. Our safety page lists every protection we run.
Phone or web?
SDC, Fab Swingers, Feeld and 3Fun have apps in both stores; Swinging Heaven is a website, and we found no official AdultFriendFinder app. Find Swingers runs in any browser and installs to your home screen, as our swinger app page shows. If cost decides it, our pricing page lists every Find Swingers plan.
Swinger site questions
Are there any good swinger sites?
Yes. Find Swingers, SDC, Fab Swingers and Swinging Heaven are made for swingers, while Feeld, 3Fun and AdultFriendFinder suit people who want something broader or app-based. The right one depends on where you live, whether you play as a couple or a single, and whether you'd rather use a website or an app.
Do swinger sites cost money?
It depends on the site. Fab Swingers is funded by adverts. Find Swingers, SDC and Swinging Heaven start you on a basic membership and sell paid memberships on top, and Feeld and 3Fun are app downloads with paid extras. On Find Swingers, Classic members can send a limited number of messages a day.
Is there a swinger app?
Yes. You can download SDC, Fab Swingers, Feeld and 3Fun from the App Store or Google Play. Find Swingers works differently: open it in your phone's browser and save it to your home screen as a web app, with nothing to fetch from a store.
Which swinger site is best for couples?
It depends on the couple. 3Fun suits couples after a threesome who like a shared account on an app, SDC suits couples who travel and want parties, and Find Swingers suits couples who want to swap, find a third or plan a group meet, with more than 1,900 couples already members.
Are swinger sites safe to use?
They can be, if you use the tools. Choose a site with checks you can see on a profile, keep your surname and address to yourself, and meet somewhere public first. On Find Swingers, every member gets free ID checks, your profile gives away only your nearest town, and blocking works instantly.
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