Say it once, for both of you
Your profile says you're a couple, what you're into together and where your limits sit, so a third or another couple knows the deal before the first message.
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Find Swingers vs 3Fun: Threesomes and More
3Fun is built around the threesome; Find Swingers gives couples and singles the threesome, the swap, the party and the club night.
One threesome, or the whole lifestyle?
Pick 3Fun if a threesome is the main event, you're happy to download an app, and you like the idea of a shared couple account with group chats on your phone. Pick Find Swingers if you want threesomes and the rest of swinging too, from soft swap and full swap to foursomes, parties and clubs, on a site that opens in any browser.
3Fun is an app for couples and singles looking for threesomes and other ethically non-monogamous connections. Find Swingers has been a swinger site since 2004. For some couples a unicorn is where swinging begins; for others it's a soft swap with another couple. Here both live under one profile, so your plans can change without you changing apps.
Find Swingers and 3Fun at a glance
| For you | Find Swingers | 3Fun |
|---|---|---|
| Built for | Swinging in all its forms: swaps, threesomes, foursomes, parties, clubs | Threesomes and other ethically non-monogamous connections |
| Couples | Join as a couple; more than 1,900 couples on the site | Couples can share one account |
| Group plans | VIP members open private group chats for up to 50 | Members can set up group chats |
| Where it works | Any browser, phone or computer; installs to your home screen | An app on the App Store and Google Play |
| Getting started | Classic membership with a set number of messages a day | Basic app includes messaging your matches |
| Checks | Free ID checks and admin profile validation, plus video verification | Verified photos |
| Staying private | Nearest town only; explicit images blurred until you choose | Incognito mode |
| Behind it | Online since 2004, on the HubPeople dating platform | 3Fun Limited, registered in the Seychelles; founded in 2015, it says |
From your first unicorn to your first foursome
A threesome is one kind of night. Find Swingers is made for that night and for the ones that come after it.
Looking for a third? Say so on your profile, describe who you'd like to meet and search by distance for single women and single men who list threesomes among their interests. Our guide on how to find a third has the full approach.
When you fancy a swap with another couple, they're already here, more than 1,900 of them. And when the plan grows into a party or a club night, our pages on swingers parties and swingers clubs explain how those evenings run, while the people you'll go with are a search away.
Made for two
Couples call the shots
3Fun lets a couple share one account. On Find Swingers, couples join as couples, and the profile does the talking for both of you.
Plan it in one chat
Any VIP member can start a group chat for up to 50 people, with Classic members welcome in it, so the couple, the third and the hosts can sort the details together.
See who you're inviting
Look for the verified badge and check the community rating every member carries before anyone joins your evening. Our page for swinging couples has more.
Start in your browser tonight
3Fun is an app, so your first step there is a download from the App Store or Google Play. Find Swingers begins wherever you're reading this: join in the browser, then add it to your home screen if you want it to open like an app. It works the same on a laptop, and our swinger app page shows the set-up.
Do your homework before the hotel room
3Fun offers verified photos and an Incognito mode. On Find Swingers, a free ID check adds a badge, a moderator can confirm you on a live video call without any documents, and our team can validate a profile by hand.
Once you're talking, each member's community rating shows how they've behaved, one-click feedback lets you flag a bad exchange, and you'll get a warning if someone tries to pull the conversation onto WhatsApp or another app. Your location shows as your nearest town only, explicit images stay blurred until you choose, and blocking is instant. Read the rest on our safety page, then plan the meet with our guide to your first swinger meet.
When 3Fun is the smarter pick
We'd rather you landed in the right place. 3Fun may be the better choice if:
- a threesome is all you're after, and you want an app built around exactly that;
- you prefer an app from the App Store or Google Play to one you add from your browser;
- you want somewhere that makes a point of inclusion: 3Fun says it welcomes gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, queer and transgender members;
- scale is your priority: 3Fun says it has had 10 million downloads and has 3 million active members.
If your plans stretch past the threesome to swaps, parties and club nights, that's where Find Swingers earns its place. Other head-to-heads are on our comparisons page.
3Fun and Find Swingers, asked and answered
What is 3Fun?
3Fun is an app for couples and singles looking for threesomes and other ethically non-monogamous connections. It's on the App Store and Google Play, it's run by 3Fun Limited, a company registered in the Seychelles, and it says it was founded in 2015 by a software engineer.
What does 3Fun charge for?
3Fun's basic app lets you message your matches, and it sells a paid VIP subscription on top. On Find Swingers, Classic membership comes with a daily message allowance; upgrading to VIP or VIP Plus lifts the cap and adds more besides.
Is there a 3Fun alternative that works in a browser?
Yes. Find Swingers works in whatever browser your phone or laptop already has, and adding it to your home screen gives you an app-style icon. It covers threesomes alongside soft swap, full swap, foursomes, parties and clubs, and joining takes a few minutes, as a couple or a single.
How do couples find a third on Find Swingers?
Join as a couple, say on your profile that you're looking for a third and describe who you'd like to meet. Search by distance, read profiles properly and open with a relaxed chat. VIP members can also filter by experience level and what people are open to.
Is Find Swingers only for threesomes?
No. Threesomes are one part of it. Couples and singles also meet for soft swap, full swap, foursomes, same-room play, parties and club nights, and your profile is where you say which of those you want and which you'd rather skip.
See how the other names compare
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