Derby
More than 50 members, west along the A52, so a Derby couple and a Nottingham couple can meet in the middle.
East Midlands
Couples and singles across Nottinghamshire, a club just over the Trent, and Derby and Leicester down the road.
Nottinghamshire counts more than 100 Find Swingers members, more than 50 of them in Nottingham itself, with more in Mansfield, Newark and the Ashfield towns. Cross the county line and Derby adds more than 50 and Leicester more than 60, so the East Midlands gives you real choice without a long drive.
Say plainly what you're after, a swap with another couple, a single you can trust or a way into the party scene, and you'll hear from people who mean it too. For the rest of the country, see swingers in the UK.
The East Midlands triangle
Between them, Nottinghamshire, Derby and Leicester have more than 200 of our members, close enough together to share one scene.
More than 50 members, west along the A52, so a Derby couple and a Nottingham couple can meet in the middle.
More than 60 members, a short train ride or a run down the M1 to the south.
Twelve miles north, with members of its own, so the north of the county isn't left out.
Drivers use junctions 24, 25 or 26 of the M1, and East Midlands Airport is 12 miles south-west if anyone's flying in for the weekend.
Purple Mamba is a private members' swingers club in West Bridgford, just south of the river from the city centre, and it hosts party nights, themed ones included. Check its own site for current nights, membership and the house rules before your first visit.
House parties are the other way in. Hosts rarely give an address to someone they haven't met, so a full profile and a drink in the Lace Market are what get your name on the list. The swingers parties page explains how invitations work.
Shares of our members across Nottinghamshire, singles and couples together, from our member records.
More than a third are 35 to 44, and the over-55s make up just 17%, the lowest of all fourteen UK places we cover. If you're in your thirties or forties, you're right at home here.
Hockley is the city's bohemian quarter and the Lace Market is known for its bars, so between them a first meet is covered. The Hockley Arts Club on Warser Gate, The Blind Rabbit at Weekday Cross and Six Richmond House in Hurts Yard all work for a drink that can run on, or end with a friendly goodbye.
The tram stop sits right above Nottingham station, so anyone coming in from Beeston or further out can leave the car at home.
Yes. Purple Mamba, a private members' swingers club, is in West Bridgford, just south of the River Trent from the city centre, and it hosts party nights. Rules and nights can change, so look at its site before your first visit, and think about arriving with a couple you've already met.
Both have members in good numbers: more than 50 in Derby and more than 60 in Leicester, on top of more than 100 across Nottinghamshire. Derby is west along the A52 and Leicester a short train ride south, so a Nottingham meet works for all three cities.
Yes, Mansfield has members of its own, 12 miles north of Nottingham. Widen your radius so the north of the county and the city both show up, and suggest a first drink in town or halfway, somewhere neither of you is known.
Sheffield is up the M1 and Birmingham across the Midlands, and the guides help before the first drink.
Set up your profile, search the East Midlands and have a drink planned before Friday.
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