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Swingers in Nottingham: Meet Couples Who Mean It

Couples and singles across Nottinghamshire, a club just over the Trent, and Derby and Leicester down the road.

Nottinghamshire's swingers, and more next door

Nottinghamshire counts more than 100 Find Swingers members, more than 50 of them in Nottingham itself, with more in Mansfield, Newark and the Ashfield towns. Cross the county line and Derby adds more than 50 and Leicester more than 60, so the East Midlands gives you real choice without a long drive.

Say plainly what you're after, a swap with another couple, a single you can trust or a way into the party scene, and you'll hear from people who mean it too. For the rest of the country, see swingers in the UK.

The East Midlands triangle

Nottingham, Derby and Leicester in one search

Between them, Nottinghamshire, Derby and Leicester have more than 200 of our members, close enough together to share one scene.

Derby

More than 50 members, west along the A52, so a Derby couple and a Nottingham couple can meet in the middle.

Leicester

More than 60 members, a short train ride or a run down the M1 to the south.

Mansfield

Twelve miles north, with members of its own, so the north of the county isn't left out.

Getting in

Drivers use junctions 24, 25 or 26 of the M1, and East Midlands Airport is 12 miles south-west if anyone's flying in for the weekend.

A club night just over the Trent

Purple Mamba is a private members' swingers club in West Bridgford, just south of the river from the city centre, and it hosts party nights, themed ones included. Check its own site for current nights, membership and the house rules before your first visit.

House parties are the other way in. Hosts rarely give an address to someone they haven't met, so a full profile and a drink in the Lace Market are what get your name on the list. The swingers parties page explains how invitations work.

Find Nottingham swingers

A crowd that's mostly under 45

Members under 3520%
Members aged 35 to 4437%
Members aged 45 to 5426%
Members aged 55 or over17%

Shares of our members across Nottinghamshire, singles and couples together, from our member records.

More than a third are 35 to 44, and the over-55s make up just 17%, the lowest of all fourteen UK places we cover. If you're in your thirties or forties, you're right at home here.

First drinks in the Lace Market and Hockley

Hockley is the city's bohemian quarter and the Lace Market is known for its bars, so between them a first meet is covered. The Hockley Arts Club on Warser Gate, The Blind Rabbit at Weekday Cross and Six Richmond House in Hurts Yard all work for a drink that can run on, or end with a friendly goodbye.

The tram stop sits right above Nottingham station, so anyone coming in from Beeston or further out can leave the car at home.

How to meet swingers in Nottingham

  1. Say who you are and what you want. Pair or solo, swap or threesome, first-timer or old hand: put it on your profile so the right people find you. Our swinger profile tips help.
  2. Search the triangle. Set a radius that reaches Derby and Leicester as well as the city. All anyone sees is the town you're nearest to.
  3. Check your daily matches. They lean towards people close by and the kind of fun you've asked for, so look there before you search.
  4. Let a drink do the deciding. An hour in Hockley settles what a fortnight of messages can't.

What Nottingham swingers want to know

Is there a swingers club in Nottingham?

Yes. Purple Mamba, a private members' swingers club, is in West Bridgford, just south of the River Trent from the city centre, and it hosts party nights. Rules and nights can change, so look at its site before your first visit, and think about arriving with a couple you've already met.

What about swingers in Derby and Leicester?

Both have members in good numbers: more than 50 in Derby and more than 60 in Leicester, on top of more than 100 across Nottinghamshire. Derby is west along the A52 and Leicester a short train ride south, so a Nottingham meet works for all three cities.

Can I find swingers in Mansfield?

Yes, Mansfield has members of its own, 12 miles north of Nottingham. Widen your radius so the north of the county and the city both show up, and suggest a first drink in town or halfway, somewhere neither of you is known.

Line up your Nottingham weekend

Set up your profile, search the East Midlands and have a drink planned before Friday.

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